Did I wear the right underwear?

Could I do it?  Would I be mentally strong enough?  Are my lungs having a good day?  Will my legs last?
Did I train hard enough?  Did I wear the right underwear?

Lisa Phone September 2014 soccer, family picnic, class reunion 2071

Yep…all thoughts as I drove myself to my 6th half marathon race on Saturday morning.  I had one goal in mind….. to set a new personal record (PR).  I had been trying for almost 2 years to break the 2:10 mark (2 hours: 10 minutes) and had almost succumbed to the fact that maybe I should be happy with a 2:10 and count my blessings.  But, the day before the race a very good friend of mine, Trisha, challenged me to beat her PR which was about 5 minutes faster than mine.  Game On.
Lisa Phone September 2014 soccer, family picnic, class reunion 2072
I usually have a couple adult beverages on Friday nights with some of my favorite people, but because of the race the next morning, I stayed in and tried to rest despite the butterflies in my belly.  Saturday morning I got up, showered, shimmied my way into my running capris and sports bra, grabbed my inhaler, pre-workout drink, IPod Nano, and out the door I went to meet my running group called “Running Sole Mates.”  Clever group name, huh??

Lisa Phone September 2014 soccer, family picnic, class reunion 2075

After going back to the vehicle to get the pre-workout drink I had forgotten, and then using the bathroom for the 100th time that morning, I met them under the clock as we do every year.  We are a group of running misfits who LOVE the runner’s high and have become addicted to the pain.  Then we headed to the start line, where I realized I had forgotten my hand held race bottle and keys sitting on the bench by the clock.  I panicked…..but had no time to worry about it.  I must focus.
Lisa Phone September 2014 soccer, family picnic, class reunion 2076
The countdown began….. 5, 4, 3, 2, and 1….and we were off.  The first 4 miles is a straight shot through downtown & then we start winding around parks & beautiful neighborhoods.  My comfortable pace is a 10 minute mile, but my last few training runs weren’t going so well.  I knew by mile 2 I was running under a 9:30pace.  By mile 4 came and I was still holding strong.  A dear friend tapped me on the shoulder and we chatted for about a half mile before she took off after her own PR.  I stayed behind her for about a mile before losing her at a water stop.
Mile 5: My pace was 9:27.
Mile 6-8: A bit of a blur.  I was working really hard to focus on my technique and find a fast paced song.
Mile 10: Pace had dropped to a 9:37. I was wondering if I could hold onto that pace for 3 more miles.
Mile 11:  Can I stop yet please??  NO.  But, I did slow my pace a bit.  I ran into 3 very tall athletic guys wearing neon green T-shirts with their names on the back.  They had a good pace & were having fun giving children high 5’s and chatting/being silly while they ran.  I wondered how that must feel to have energy like that at mile 11.  I knew I needed to stay with them and they kept me entertained.
Mile 12:  OMG – I. CAN. DO. THIS.  The dialogue in my head “Don’t slow down.  You will be so pissed at yourself.  If you slow down and are just a few seconds off you will have ruined all your hard work the past 12 miles.  PUSH!!!” (Followed by a lot of prayers.)
Mile 13: Upon nearing mile 13, the crowd starts to get thick as you run into the stadium and to the finish line.  This is the fun part.  Let me paint the feeling…. Your lungs are tired, your legs are aching, you are thirsty, Salt is covering your body, you cannot feel all of your toes, and people are watching you.  “Pull it together, Lisa…… Lead By Example!”  was the reoccurring thought at this stage.  Then there was a steep downward ramp into the stadium “Don’t fall, Don’t fall.  Please God… don’t let me fall.” 
Onto the red outer track of the outfield which runs all the way around and to home plate.  That is a little over .10 of a mile.  I was concerned about the clock…. So my pace picked up.  I also saw a lady who was older and bigger than I who was about 20 feet in front of me.  No way in hell was she going to beat me (did I mention I’m a bit competitive?)……and I sped past her.  My body was aching, but the finish line was 150 feet away.  I crossed the line, gave a fist pump, and immediately overwhelmed with emotion.  I knew I had PR’d but not sure by how much!!!!
Now….. once you finish a race, they usher you through a line towards water, food, and your medals.  I recognized no one, so made my way to the grass to sit down and stretch.  While in child’s pose, my eyes may have leaked a little….not from the pain of my body but from the accomplishment I had just done ALL BY MYSELF.  I DID IT!!  Then….my phone started blowing up with texts from friends who were tracking me and saw my finish time.  My friend, Drew, told me my time: 2:06:53.  I beat my old time by 3+ minutes!!  BOOM!  That medal was a sweet keepsake.
Lisa Phone September 2014 soccer, family picnic, class reunion 2078
The rest was surreal.  I made my way up the stadium stairs to find my childhood friend, Drew waiting on me with a Gatorade.  I may have cried, talked too fast, zoned out….. I’m not really sure!!  My brain and body was tired and I zoned out with my chocolate milk.  He walked with me to that bench under the clock and my water bottle with car key was still there!!!
As I was trying to clear my thoughts, more friends were coming up to me chatting about the race.  Some set new records, others had a difficult race, but we ALL crossed the finish line!!

Did I mention we all do this because the ‘runner’s high’ is amazing??  Truly, it is.  It’s a beautiful mix of body pain and mental jubilation!  I had done it!!!!  I had a new PR!!!  I have yet to run down Trisha’s PR….. but that gives me a new goal.  🙂  Post run activities included food, fluids, ice bath, and rest!  (Okay…. a couple pain pills too!)  Recovery is VERY important….it will help you to feel much better by the next day!  If you are unsure what to eat/drink…contact me and I will teach you.

Lisa Phone September 2014 soccer, family picnic, class reunion 2087

This Sunday, I’m running another half marathon.  This is the first time I will have ran 2 half marathons in consecutive weekends.  I will then be considered a ‘half fanatic’ – just another title for us crazy runners.

Crazy we may be…….. but we are also mentally strong people who love pushing ourselves to see what our bodies can do.  I challenge you to find out what your body can accomplish and how strong you are mentally.  You never know how great you can be until you give it all you have.

** If you need some assistance accomplishing your fitness goals, I’d love to chat with you!  You can reach me at Bashford.Lisa@yahoo.com or check out my website to find all my social media outlets!!  www.YourFitness-411.com

You can bet your sweet…

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Craving something sweet?  You are not alone.  Did you know that the average American eats 100 pounds of sugar in a year? 
I consider myself a fairly healthy eater & I try to help my kids to make wise choices also.  However, I still love to bake (I ‘healthy up’ most recipes the best that I can), sometimes sweeten my coffee & oatmeal with the sweet stuff, and love cookies.  Even though I kicked the soda habit a couple years ago and try to STRONGLY advise my clients against diet soda (it’s worse than the regular)…. I still find myself wondering if I’m still addicted to it.  I question,  “Is it hurting my progress?”  If I’m eating too much of the sweet stuff, then others are drowning themselves in it!! 
Sugar is mainly fructose and glucose and when we eat if, the pancrease releases insulin, which helps our bodies use it as fuel and creates a drop in blood sugar.  However, if we eat more sugar than our bodies can process, the insulin tells our body to store the excess as fat and we gain weight.  Also, the insulin drops blood sugar and soon we feel fatigued, tired, and craving more sugar!  The more weight you carry on your body, the higher your risk for Type 2 Diabetes and heart disease. 
There are many professional opinions about sugar… but the main problem is that many people are eating WAY TOO MUCH OF IT and they don’t even know it.  Sugar is not the problem, it’s how much we eat that is the problem. 
So, back to my question – Did you know that the average American eats 100 pounds of sugar in a year?  Do you know if you are eating that much?  Most of the sugar we eat is not table sugar from coffee and oatmeal, but from packaged foods.  Even ones we ‘think’ are healthy such as peanut butter, wheat bread, pasta sauce, salad dressings, orange juice, crackers, yogurt, etc.  Maunufactures had sugar simply because it tastes better.  If your child would only eat spaghetti with one kind of sauce, then you would purchase that kind, correct?  They have favorites and usually it’s because it’s sweeter than other brands.  The sweeter the food gets, the less nutritious it is.  I always tell people to stop eating processed foods…..they are full of sweetners and do not have many vitamins/minerals to satisfy hunger.  Think about it…. Many people think a ‘heathy’ diet should have yogurt, wheat bread, those 100-calorie snack packs, juice, fruit, and much more.  Well, fruit packs it’s own sugar called fructose….and you don’t need a lot more than that!!  Check out your yogurt labels and you will see 15+ grams of sugar on most of them. 
You can bet your sweet backside that the sweet stuff only creates MORE cravings for sweet stuff.  It’s a cycle that you can’t escape unless you make changes. 

 “Lisa, how much sugar should we be eating?” Doctors recommend about 140-180calories of your daily intake can be sugar related.  One gram of sugar contains 3.87 calories.  I typically tell people….. 30-50 grams, but try to stay around 40 if possible, because it’s difficult!!  The less processed foods you eat, the less sugar you will consume.  Read that again!!!  The less processed foods you eat, the less sugar you will consume…. Helping to break the cycle and lose weight.  YOU tell your body what to eat…… YOU rid it of addictions.  It cannot rid itself. 
Train your tongue to eat less sugar by mixing half your regular yogurt with half of the plain kind for a couple weeks.  Eat regulary to avoid low blood sugar and the cravings for sweets.  Dessert should consist of fruit (which is naturally sweet….hello pineapple!) and less of the manufactured treats.  

Read your labels. 
Did you know that whatever is listed as the FIRST ingredient, means that product has the MOST of that ingredient.  For instance, if the first ingredient is ‘high fructose corn syrup’ put it down and walk away!  Sugar shows up on labels as high fructose corn syrup, sucrose, maltose, dextrose, honey, molasses, maple syrup, evaporated can juice, fruit juice concentrate, and agave nectar.  Often times…..all that sugar added up is more than any other ingredient.  YIKES!!  Choose items that say “no added sugar” and be aware of those that say “Lightly sweetened’ or ‘low sugar’.  WHY?  Because the FDA does not regulate those phrases.  Going all artificial  isn’t good either.  A study in the journal Appetite found that using artificial sweeteners could also result in weight gain.  Hello Diet Soda!!  Experts believe they leave you hungry because they have the sweetness without the calories, leaving you unsatisfied.  Which is another reason I tell clients that if you MUST drink a soda every so often, drink the real stuff and get it out of your system vs. wasting time on the ‘diet’ sodas which leave you craving more and causing weight gain.  Sodas, sweetened tea, and fancy coffee drinks are full of sugary ingredients.  Be aware!! 

By making smart swaps, training your tongue, and being aware of hidden traps in food choices, you are creating a healthier life for you and your family.  Don’t allow your children to get addicted to sugar, by limiting processed foods.  I’m not saying “Never eat a cookie” – I’m just saying there’s no need for them to eat chips, candy, soda, and crackers on a daily basis.  Those are ‘treats’ not daily staples.  That goes for YOU too!  Treat your body well.  Now you are educated and have more of an understanding on sugar and what it creates in the body.  I hope the next time you reach for a diet soda, crackers, or spaghetti sauce, you read the labels or think, “hmmm…this isn’t going to do anything for me except make me want more” and realize that it’s not worth it. 

Check your yogurt….. you will be amazed. 
I can hear parents already, “But at least my kid is eating yogurt!” Yep, you are correct and mine kiddos eat it too.  But, are you allowing them to eat chips, candy, crackers, & fruit juices daily too?  If so, then you need to rethink your actions.  You are doing them NO favors.
Most kids will be drawn to a big plate of colorful fruit/veggies more than cracker and chips anyways.  Allow them to make choices…… just give them better choices. 

Remember, sugar itself isn’t ‘bad’…. It’s how much of it we eat that is the problem!  
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Stay Sweet!  

Fear ruins big dreams, goals, & plans.

Fear.  It stops us from accomplishing a lot of things in our lives and it stops us from making positive change, trying something new, or breaking out of our comfort zones.  I’m learning this first hand on a few levels.  I’m a tough broad.  I’m not intimidated easily by others & I like to be independent & doing things that people doubt I can accomplish.  I have found that success IS the best revenge and I thoroughly enjoy it.  I find success in small things – running extra miles, helping others lose weight, promoting a kick ass workout program, creating a bicep muscle, losing weight after having children, getting my kids to bed on a consistent regimen and when they ask me for “a healthy snack” vs. chips & cereal.  But that darn fear cont. to hold me back at times.  Fear of the unknown and I end up playing the ‘what if’ game. 

That game NEVER bodes well….. Even if the ‘what if’ is positive, it’s often followed by a negative thought process.  “What if” I become a Beachbody coach and then I don’t do well and fail?  “What if” I sign up for another marathon and get injured or the training is just too hard.  “What if” my kids aren’t successful adults and feel as though I failed them?  Those are all common thoughts and questions, but it’s how we respond to those ‘what ifs’ that make or break us.  Sometimes, I’m tough and kick that ‘what if’ in the face by proving it wrong (becoming a Beachbody coach and helping others has been a great experience and allowed me to pay off bills, buy fun things, meet people from all over the world, and hold myself accountable).  Other times, that ‘what if’ plagues me; such as with my hesitation regarding registering for another marathon.  I ran my first marathon in October 2011 & have toyed with the idea of running another one since the first.  After I watched the Boston Marathon Bombings, I told myself I would run another marathon this October.  I booked the hotel room, poured over training programs, wrote out a training schedule on my calendar, and even have started running the mileage!!  But guess what???  I haven’t registered yet!  What is my problem?  I’m not sure!!  I’m allowing the fear of not being able to accomplish my goal time (and the pain mile 23 inflicted on my body) to make me hesitate!  I’ve ran 10 miles the past 3 Saturdays! I’m committed…… but need that last step. 
Therefore, I have found that when I hold myself accountable, I get things accomplished.  When I post my goals to the world (usually on my facebook biz page) is when it gets done.  A post such as, “I am getting ready to run a 10 miler this morning!” or “I’m going to complete the new Focus T25 workout program…  Want to do it with me?”  Those posts keep me accountable and that technique works very well for me.
So…… following suit, I’m going to conquer that fear and announce it here. 

“Hello, my name is Lisa and I am going to register for my second full marathon this week.”

Whew!!  Done deal now!!!  There’s a weight off my shoulders yet a shiver just went down my spine!
I will be documenting my marathon journey too.  Don’t worry, I won’t blog after every run (boring) but I hope to blog on a weekly basis. I hope to show you a candid vision of how emotional and time consuming it can be to be a Momma and train for a marathon.  I need to sneak those training runs in when I can!  Between soccer practice/games (Yep, I’m a soccer Mom), bedtime routines, being a physical therapist assistant and fitness/nutritional coach, I will get those miles in!  No excuses.  I don’t believe in excuses, just ask my clients! 

Fear, be gone!!!  (Shivered again).  If you are contemplating a big decision and find that fear is tripping you up (like the runner’s pun?) then I’d like to make a suggestion.  Envision what your life will be like once the decision or change has been made.  You should make a clear plan and write it down, so that you have a rough draft of what your life will be like.  Will there be struggles?  Probably.  But, in the end, will it be worth it??  YES.  And, if it’s not…. You still walked away knowing that you tried, so therefore, still worth it!  The weeks, months, years are going to go by regardless, so if you step out of your comfort zone, then at least you will have learned a little something about yourself, your strength, and how to conquer that fear the next time.  Every experience should be a learning one.  Good or bad… learn from it.  If you do this, nothing will be a waste of time. 
Bye Bye Fear!!!  (Right???)