“Look Mom, NO HANDS!”

Can a workout bring back childhood memories, make you reminisce, and be truly enjoyable?  Mine just did!! 

My 4.5 year old daughter learned a week ago how to ride a 2 wheel bike.  And, she does it very well!!!!  Watching her learn how to balance herself on 2 wobbly wheels and then get more steady as her self-confidence grew reminded me of when I learned to ride a bike.  When I realized my Dad had let go of the seat, I got nervous and drove right into the bushes and bumped the house!  I was upset with him then….but now I laugh about what a great memory that is for me.

Fast forward to today.  I am very active and love sports/fitness.  I have had 3 weeks off training for a half marathon and decided it would be good for my body to take some time off of distance running.  My longest run over the past few weeks was probably about 4 miles.  Otherwise, I’ve been doing Les Mills Pump workouts, swimming, P90X workouts, core strengthening, and stretching.  Thanks to my friends posting on their facebook pages and on the health/accountability page I created for friends about their bike riding miles along with my daughter learning to ride…..it motivated me.  I decided it would be good to add biking to my cross training.

I literally just got off my bike tonight.  I rode for 6.28 miles on running paths and country roads.  It was incredibly magnificent and I loved every bit of it (even though I still think running up a hill is easier than biking….YIKES!). I felt the burn in my quads as I rode up some steep hills, enjoyed the breeze in my face from the bike, had a chat with God, remembered what it was like to be a kid and witnessed a beautiful sunset.

I started off listening to my IPod, and then shut it off, realizing I didn’t need it.  When running, I use music to mask my breathing so that mentally I don’t stress myself out.  I also use it to distract me from the mileage.  I was able to recover well with my breathing while on the bike after hills, and therefore didn’t want the music.  Once I turned off the music, I was taken back to my childhood and reminded of the old country road behind my Grandma and Grandpa’s house (where I had my first kiss while on a bike ride!).  I could hear the sound of gravel crackling under the bike tires just like 25 years ago.  I remember, as a kid, trying to pop the tar bubbles on the country roads with my bike tires.  Tonight, the birds were singing, cars randomly cruised by, I smelled someone starting a campfire, and the sky was a magnificent pale blue as the wispy clouds glared pink and purple shades thanks to a gorgeous sunset.  I literally was a kid again……smiling and enjoying a bike ride.  I spooked a deer who was munching in a bean field and it bounced away with its white tail straight up.  Geese flew low and into the pond.  All this that I was able to experience while on a bike, vs. running.  When running, I focus on my technique, breathing, mileage, and am looking forward to the next mile completed.  On the bike, I was having fun.  I was not out for a leisurely ride, it was a good workout, which made it that much better!

The only thing I did as a kid that I was unable to do the past few rides, was to ride without hands.  I used to be able to steer my 10 speed bike (I thought a 10 speed was the BEST thing back then) with my legs and core.  I attempted tonight, but only for a split second, and then laughed out loud as I could not do it.  My children have not attempted that yet, and I don’t think it has crossed their young minds……but soon I’m sure I’ll be hearing, “Look Mom, no hands!”  🙂

Cross training doesn’t have to be a chore.  It can be fun, enjoyable……….and take you right back to being 11 years old again.  During this busy life, you can bet I’ll be out there again…..losing myself in a ride and being a kid.  Exercise is just as good mentally and emotionally as it is physically for your body.

(To learn more about cross-training or some of the workout programs I do, feel free to contact me at Bashford.lisa@yahoo.com or simply go to my website:  www.YourFitness-411.com )

UGH! But, lacing up the shoes and moving forward….

Have you ever visualized something, worked hard for it, spent weeks sacrificing…..just to have it completely erased within 24 hours of the big event? 

That is exactly what happened to me.  Less than 24 hours before my July half marathon, it was cancelled.  The July 7th half marathon was sponsored by my town’s version of The Biggest Loser.  And due to the extreme heat in NE Indiana (and much of the country), it was cancelled with less than 24 hours to go before race time.  I understand the reasons it was cancelled even though I wish it was handled differently.

If you are a runner, or have experienced a ‘runner’s high’ post run/race, then you understand why you cont. to run.  It’s an incredible feeling and I’ve had it plenty of times, so I was really looking forward to it.  Training this spring/early summer has been T-O-U-G-H to say the least.  When training for a long distance run, your family and you sacrifice many things.

  •  sleep – so that you get up early enough to get proper nutrition to sustain your body during a long run and to beat the heat.
  • I didn’t go out with friends on Friday evenings so that I was ready for Sat. morning runs.
  • I experienced heat exhaustion on my 11 mile run.  I had to run it at 11am vs. early morning because my son had a baseball game and I couldn’t let him down.  It was 90 degrees at that time….but I completed the run visualizing the race, knowing it was going to be a hot run on race day.
  • pain – my SI joint/hip were painful the last third of my training and I spent a lot of time trying to promote healing while not falling behind in my training.
  • your family makes sacrifices too……to help support your long runs and time away on weekends.

Needless to say…..working hard for something and then not getting the chance to complete the goal is extremely disappointing, frustrating, and depressing.  10-12 weeks was spent on preparation for that big day.  How do you get over it?  I don’t really know….I’m still bitter and hit a bit of a workout slump because of it.  Runners also know that along with a runner’s high comes a mild let down because all the training/focusing you’ve been doing is finished until you sign up for another race.

I can only imagine the employee that spent week/months working hard and sacrificing family time for their company, only to have the business close its doors at the last-minute.  Or, the parent saving money and working overtime to pay for the big vacation, just to have a family member fall ill.  We all sacrifice, and we all work hard at something….and sometimes it just doesn’t work out.  When this happens there is no conclusion……no resolution………no shining moment……it’s just gone.

I do not believe in dwelling on the past or what’s lost.  I believe in picking yourself up and moving on.  Finding inner strength is difficult, but it can be done.  After a few days, most of my anger subsided and I chalked it up to the fact that the 10-12 weeks of training kept me focused and in great shape.  I plan on signing up for another half marathon in the fall and starting the training all over again in a couple of weeks.  Sounds kinda daunting, but I have felt kinda lost the past couple of weeks without having a race to visualize.

This has also helped me to realize that I need something to remain focused on when it comes to working out.  I need a program to complete, a race to run/bike, and it’s more to me than just my body staying in shape and losing a few pounds.  It keeps me mentally focused and is my outlet in this crazy busy life.  If you haven’t tried exercise as an outlet and for mental relaxation, you are missing out!  🙂

This girl is ready to move on, and start training again.  Train with me!  Contact me if you are also starting a new training regimen.  Let’s get back on track together.  www.YourFitness-411.com

Time to lace up the shoes…………